Your Questions

Question: In your article on Auditory Digital Processing, you mention it’s not ideal for performance situations. What exactly do you mean by “performance situations”? Can you provide some examples? Answer: Performance situations are those moments where smooth, natural flow and presence are essential—times when being overly self-aware or mentally overanalyzing can get in the way […]

Question:What is the difference between content and process? Answer:Understanding the difference between content and process is essential—especially in communication, relationships, and personal change. Content:This refers to what the conversation or issue is about. In a disagreement, for example, the content could be anything—money, parenting, chores, schedules, etc. It’s the subject matter, the topic on the

Question:Hi,This might sound a bit unusual, but I’ve been wondering—if I use self-hypnosis and apply principles from the law of attraction, is it possible to influence other people’s emotions or decisions from a distance? Could I somehow shift external circumstances—things beyond my direct control—to work in my favor? Sort of like orchestrating my own version

Question:What are some ways to define Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)? Answer:Neuro-Linguistic Programming, commonly known as NLP, is a method for understanding and influencing how people think, feel, and behave. At its core, NLP explores the structure of subjective experience—how we internally perceive and respond to the world around us, rather than reacting directly to the external

Question:What is the relationship between MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) types and NLP Meta Programs? Answer:Meta Programs refer to the unconscious filters we use to process information. They’re like mental habits or cognitive patterns that shape how we perceive, interpret, and respond to the world around us. Michael Hall describes Meta Programs as mental frames or

Question: Hi, my name is Gabriel. I’ve been studying NLP for about five years, and I have a question:How many layers of metaphor can you use before the unconscious mind stops recognizing the embedded suggestion?From what I understand, the unconscious can easily process a single-layer metaphor — but is there a limit to how deeply

Question: I found your article on modeling quite insightful.How would you go about modeling someone you don’t personally know — for example, someone you’ve seen on television, someone in a different department at work, or even a neighbor? In many cases, you can’t approach these people directly or ask personal questions to understand them deeply.

Question:Hi, I’ve heard people talk about creating five open loop metaphors, and I’m curious—how do you actually do that? Answer:Great question, Joe! You can actually create as many open loops as your mind can manage. The technique of crafting nested or layered loops is often discussed in metaphor-building, particularly in NLP and conversational hypnosis. The

Question:What does “personal power” mean in NLP? Answer:In Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), personal power refers to the ability to consciously choose how you respond to situations, rather than reacting automatically or emotionally. Many people believe that their emotions are controlled by external events or others—for example, saying things like “She made me so angry” or “I

Question:What distinguishes Rule Governed Behavior from Determined Behavior? Answer:Although I’m not entirely familiar with these exact terms, here’s my interpretation. Modal operators of necessity—words like “must,” “have to,” and “should”—reflect our unconscious rules. These are the internal guidelines we follow to achieve certain outcomes, get along with others, or simply navigate daily life. Exploring these