Robert Dilts has been a central figure in the development of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) since its inception. He trained directly under NLP’s founders—Richard Bandler and John Grinder—as well as renowned figures like Milton Erickson and Gregory Bateson. His deep engagement with the field has led to numerous innovations and frameworks that are now core to NLP practice.
Key Contributions to NLP
Robert Dilts has developed and refined several powerful NLP models and techniques, including:
- NLP Strategies
- Belief Change Processes
- Systemic NLP
- Sleight of Mouth Patterns – a set of conversational reframing tools
- The Spelling Strategy – helping individuals improve spelling using mental imagery
- The Allergy Technique – a method to help reduce or eliminate allergic responses
- Neuro-Logical Levels – a framework for understanding personal and organizational change
He has also shared deep insights into the foundations and evolution of NLP through talks and lectures, including his take on “What is NLP?”
Notable Publications
Robert Dilts is a highly prolific author. Some of his most influential books include:
- Neuro-Linguistic Programming: The Study of the Structure of Subjective Experience, Vol. I (with Bandler, Grinder, and DeLozier, 1980)
- Applications of NLP (1983)
- Changing Belief Systems with NLP (1990)
- Beliefs: Pathways to Health and Well-Being (with Tim Hallbom and Suzi Smith, 1990)
- Tools for Dreamers: Strategies of Creativity and Innovation (with his father Robert W. Dilts and Todd Epstein, 1991)
- Skills for the Future (with Gino Bonissone, 1993)
- Effective Presentation Skills (1994)
- Strategies of Genius Volumes I, II, and III (1994–1995), where he modeled legendary figures such as Walt Disney, Mozart, Nikola Tesla, and Albert Einstein
- Dynamic Learning (with Todd Epstein, 1995)
- Visionary Leadership Skills (1996)
- Tools of the Spirit (with Robert McDonald, 1997)
- Modeling with NLP (1998)
- Sleight of Mouth: The Magic of Conversational Belief Change (1999, 2006)
- Encyclopedia of Systemic NLP and NLP New Coding (with Judith DeLozier, 2000) – a comprehensive reference work on NLP concepts and techniques
- Alpha Leadership (with Ann Deering and Julian Russell, 2002)
- From Coach to Awakener (2003) – a practical guide for coaches at all levels
Dilts’ style of writing and teaching often reflects a structured, analytical approach, making his work especially appealing to readers with a strong preference for detail, logic, and in-depth exploration. While his books are accessible, many are better suited to intermediate or advanced NLP practitioners due to their complexity and conceptual depth.
A Man of Depth and Compassion
Beyond his academic rigor, Robert Dilts is known for his compassionate approach and belief in the power of small actions to create meaningful change. In videos such as the famous “Teddy Story”, he demonstrates the emotional and transformative power of connection and belief in human potential.
One especially moving moment is the translator’s emotional engagement during the story—a reminder that even roles meant to remain in the background can be deeply affected by messages of hope and transformation.
Teddy story 1.